Okay so me and this dude started in the same exact kingdom right, I was elder in a clan with him and we were having a merge with a clan that I left for personal reasons right when it began, I instantly drakkared away, 2 weeks later, this man follows me so i'm thinking he's my friend, we've been through an entirely different kingdom together and I got him into a real good clan, it didn't work for me so I drakkared away to another clan I was invited to. I had to leave them as well because I "attacked" someone i was friends with with 69 troops at their tile as a joke and the leader yelled at me as if I was supposed to have a "boss" in game.. spoiler, i'm in the clan that I "attacked" now. They became very toxic and I realized I was stressed because my "friend" was still with them no matter what they did or said to me even though he didnt speak very highly of them, so I told him those are your friends now. The result was a grown man with children at home easily 10 years older (in his 30's) than I am acting in a stalkerish way and I thought , hey, let me expose this real quick since you want to behave in such a manner when it isn't necessary and your clan thinks it's cute behavior when I don't even bother them. I'm in a much better clan that helps each other and isn't war hungry even though we could be. Sorry I probably shouldn't post this here, but it's hard to talk about these things and get it off your chest in a Russian clan. Even though i'd know they'd be supportive if I could explain it to them like I have here.