Gadheras said:
Jezebel said:
It's a game - I really don't care how old someone is BUT as a Marshal I would like to be made aware if someone is younger than 16
just to ensure that league chats etc are kept age appropriate for any "youngsters" out there :)
Why? That is not your responsiblity, That is the parrents responsibily and what they want to expose their kids for. If I'm in a league of like 50 people above the age of 30, and suddenly some younger than 16 joins. I wouldn't moderate myself from the usual day to day chat.
I recall once in another game I played (and still do). We was sitting on teamspeak shooting the shit. Suddenly some annoying cringy woman voice interrupted and told us how awfull being we was to talk such with her child around. She was promtly told off how awfull parrent she was for allowing her "CHILD" to play the game he was. It was not like it was just guys on teamspeak at the time, there was wimen in the guild as well (and they can be just as rowdy if they want too).
If you want to run a daycare center, please do, but having your members have to thread on pillows lead to no good what so ever in the long run.
hear i agree more with jezebel. it has been said that it takes a village to rise a child. i look at it as input into the emergent structure, every decision is a cause that brings about an effect. this effect goes beyond the inner circle of influence to the entire human structure. i consider this a responsibility regardless of what other influences may be applied by others. " the 6 year olds hear worse than that in school" is a favorite argument. and 6 year olds can cus like a sailor.
in other games i have had guilds that were all inclusive, which included young teens, skillers, casual players, no lifers, pvmers and pvpers, i requested that language be kept to pg 13, that is difficult for some players to do, but when visiting other guilds, there were posts by supposed adults that are sexual innuendos to supposed minors. and no one thinks twice.
some guilds make a rule that you must be at least 18 to join, then they are free to talk as they please. or free from those annoying kids. eventually the hardcore pvm and pvp join hardcore pvm and pvp guilds. the casual all inclusiveness is not enough to keep them, eventually they leave.
i have had some posts where i was making a point that i figured would get censored, and oddly they weren't censored to the extent that i would have if i were a mod.
so it is tricky for everyone to be who they want to be within the emergent structure, and a reason why groups combine with those who they "click" with. i see both sides, but to error, i think it best to error on the behalf of the child. and by that i mean sheltered.